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The answer is simple: harassment begins where your \u201cno\u201d, or your silence, is not respected.<\/p>\n<p>This capsule details the signs of this tipping point: it is repeated, and the accumulation of seemingly harmless messages creates pressure, it is no longer attention but a siege; it is intrusive, with messages at all hours across several channels, a form of digital stalking; it is sexual pressure, with requests for intimate photos or inappropriate comments about your body; and it is emotional blackmail, with phrases that aim to make you feel guilty to force a response.<\/p>\n<p>You have no obligation to be polite to someone who doesn\u2019t respect your space. Ignoring an insistent message is not rude, it is a protective measure: silence is a complete answer. If you feel invaded, stop justifying yourself, capture everything, block without warning, and report. Your peace of mind is worth more than his insistence.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ce petit n\u0153ud au ventre quand le t\u00e9l\u00e9phone vibre encore une fois, alors qu&rsquo;on n&rsquo;a pas r\u00e9pondu au premier message, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}}},"aiovg_categories":[62],"aiovg_tags":[],"class_list":["post-3342","aiovg_videos","type-aiovg_videos","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","aiovg_categories-harcelement"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/digitalsafespace.valueher.bj\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/aiovg_videos\/3342","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/digitalsafespace.valueher.bj\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/aiovg_videos"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/digitalsafespace.valueher.bj\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/aiovg_videos"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/digitalsafespace.valueher.bj\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/digitalsafespace.valueher.bj\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3342"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/digitalsafespace.valueher.bj\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3342"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"aiovg_categories","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/digitalsafespace.valueher.bj\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/aiovg_categories?post=3342"},{"taxonomy":"aiovg_tags","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/digitalsafespace.valueher.bj\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/aiovg_tags?post=3342"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}